Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Our House is a Very Very Very Nice House

Increasingly, couples are discovering that they would rather focus on the future of their marriage rather than focusing on the one day of their wedding. Instead of worrying about what goes on at the reception, they are thinking about what will be going on inside their house after the wedding is over. Instead of worrying about stuff that will be tossed in the trash 24-hours after the final toast, they are looking at the stuff that will last 24 years into the future.

One of the most cost-effective attitudes a couple can adopt is a change of focus. Rather than thinking about the wedding, start thinking about the marriage. Consider the relationship...the love...the future...the goals...the long-range plans.

Instead of focusing on the little picket fence, many couples are now thinking about the "inside" of the house. What's going on inside the walls? What are the joys and common goals that will make our marriage last?

Couples who discover this before the wedding, who really know each other, will not only have a debt-free wedding, they will have a debt-free life overflowing with plenty, with love, and with joy. They will have a very very very nice house. And they will save money, too!

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